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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and i love him dearly but i am feeling really bored in the relationship. I am a very outgoing, independant and love to party. I am currently at university and he has been in the same low paid job for years.My boyfriend is a good man, is very kind natured and looks after me but i feel that we have nothing in common. He hates going out and does not like spending time with my family. He has very few friends and i feel like i am the only thing in his life, he is very needy and cannot find anything productive to do when we are apart. We do the same thing every time we see eachother, just stay in at mine and watch television, we never go out or do anything and its driving me insane.I sometimes think about other men and i feel awful about it. I really care about him and dont want to loose him but his lack of self esteem and lack of excitement is gettin to me. I'm in my early 20's i'm so young and alive !!! I hate focusing on his flaws but need to get if off my chest. How can i make my relationship more exciting ? x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2010): Uhm 5 years is a long time, but your still young. End the relationship, there are so many more fish in the sea and keep searching until you find the guy who you have more things in common with. Trust me i had a similiar problem and i did the hardest thing which was end it and now 7 months later i found a girlfriend who i have so much more in common in with and we always have fun because we are alike. I hope this helps, if you want the full story message me back, and ill give you my e-mail.
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