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writes:Is there anyone who I can talk to about my issues? I'm new at my highschool and I came because I felt like an outcast at my old school. I thought things would be better once I came to my new school, but they are not. I never have anything to say, and I feel like I have no real friends, and I just need someone to help me through things. There are other things that I do not want to talk about right here but I really just want someone to talk to.. Please? Reply to this Question
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reader, reign154 +, writes (12 February 2010):
oh god, hi. i know exactly how you feel. ive graduated from highschool but this brings back memories. when i first started highschool i met two friends and became really close to them and through them i met other people who were crazy and fun to hang out with. when i had to transfer to a new school i was devestated becasue it was the middle of freshman year and i didnt no anyone at my school. first day of lunch was horrible since i sat alone at a table eating and not one person came up to me to say hi or anything just stared like i didnt belong. im not a quiet person at all im just extrmemly outgoing around my friends but its hard to really trust anyone to consider them a friend. i opened up and started talking with a girl and soon became friends with her and as we got to know eachother i became friends with her friends. all you need to do is make one friend and thw connections will be started from there. its easy whether complimenting on shoes, outfit or evern talking about a class all you have to do is have the confidence to talk to one person and show them who you are. you cant expect people to just run up to you and be friends becasue if you wait for that then it will never happen and you will always feel left out. it may seem hard not but dont think of yourself as an outcast but just think of meeting one new person and then take it from there. you seem like a sweet person who im sure can make alot of friends and im not just saying that becasue honestly if i could give advice to myself this would be it. just be confident and know ur a great person anyone would be lucky to be friends with and if everyone dosent rush to be ur friend then its thier lost not yours. have fun these 4 years becasue they will go by quicker than anything and you will want to look back on them and remmeber the great times you had with crazy friends. everybody has regrets so dont let this be yours. i hope this helps and if you ever need to talk about anything my door is open for you.
always your friend
xoxoxox reign :)
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reader, k1228 +, writes (12 February 2010):
 ill talk to you, i went through the same problem. at my old schools i was the target for a ton of pranks, i was made fun of constantley, mainly because i reacted so much they thought it was funny, as time went on i guess i just learned to laugh along with them and i became more accepted. i hope i can help in any way i can. message me.
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