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I'm not sure how to masturbate

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Question - (8 September 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *ali92 writes:

i want to finger myself but dont know how to do it the right way help plz

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A male reader, Beleren United States +, writes (9 September 2009):

There's many ways, one is you could just stimulate your clitoris that's the little hard bump that shows up at the top of your vagina while your turned on, or you could get your self turned on and when your vagina is wet insert 1 or more fingers inside you, and begin thrusting them in and out, or feel the upper part of your vagina when about 2-3 inches in and when you feel a little rough patch begin to make a come here motion with your finger to rub it and stimulate it that's your g-spot do that if u want to have a very good time :)

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A male reader, Bladejunkee United States +, writes (9 September 2009):

Bladejunkee agony auntI may not be a girl, but I believe there are two ways, Clitoral, and penetrate. If you want a more intense "buzz", you should start with Clitoral. Clitoral, science shows from my global information source terminals that 90% of woman must have direct clitoral contact for the most intense orgasm. if you really are a virgin, you may bleed the first time you have penetrative sex. JKust a warning, be careful.

Bladejunkee

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009):

hehe=] dnt feel embarassed.! its totally okay.

you know where your vaqina hole is riqht? just insert

anyy finget yu want. yur index finqer is the best one. try 2 qo in slow, so yu wont hurt yurself. Thenn make sure yu dnt have LONG finqernails. YU SHOULD GET USED 2 IT AFTER DHAT:)

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A male reader, bear314 United States +, writes (9 September 2009):

What you want to do is get yourself in a comfortable setting. Here's an example your room or bathroom. A place where you can be by yourself in private and not be interrupted. Usually dimming the lights and laying back helps. Do whatever turns you on. Touching your breasts, stroking your skin and what not. When you get down there its also a good idea to start slow and build up tension. In the end the reaction will be more explosive. Circle around your lips and then gently rub your clit which looks like more bulb like. This is the most sensitive part of your pussy and will be what gets you to cloud 9. Think of it like a stick shift that will send you to extreme heights of ecstasy. Be careful after you orgasm it will be very sensitive so stick to fingering afterwards. At some point go and stick your fingers inside and just feel around until you feel a walnut sized lump inside. That would be your G spot. A lot of women after getting into masturbating enjoy circling around their clit and fingering themselves. The rest I will leave you to explore and enjoy yourself. If you however are interested in anal play make sure you use plenty of lube and go slow. Doing this after a shower also helps relax the muscles that would otherwise make the experience very painful. I'm not a pervert or an addict I just know my way around the block and I can say doing this with a partner, male or female makes the whole journey more exciting ;). But the most important thing to do is know your body and how it works. What gets you hot and not. So that when the right person comes along you'll shine a confident radiance when you present yourself. Doesn't matter what you look like as long as you love the person you see in the mirror. Remember every woman is attractive but not every man will find you so. Every one has their preferences. So go off and enjoy yourself.

PS If your still not entirely sure just go online and find videos on women pleasuring themselves to get an idea of how to go about the whole thing

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009):

There is no "right" way to masterbate. The best way to do it is to just touch yourself and see what feels good. Women usually enjoy clitoral stimulation instead of just penetration, so you might want to try that. Just relax and let your body tell you what feels best.

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