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*adylon
writes:Hey guys. I feel really strange typing this, but I need someone else´s advice. Ive been chatting to an english man for more than 2 years. Ive made a big big effort to go to his country and finally we met. I went to the city where he lives. The first night me met it was the most beautiful thing ever hapended to me. It felt like we were meant to be. We could not help hugging each other the whole night, we were kissing and smiling each other... We spent the night together and the next day.That day he did pick me up and we went his place. He was trying a position in bed that was really hurting me so I asked him to stop. Once and again. He got angry and he rolled as it was over. He fell asleep meanwhile I was crying in silence cause COULD NOT BELIEVE he was soooo cruel and rude!Next day he went to go away and I stood by my own. The next 2 days I sent him short txt messages he did reply in a polite but cold way. I did realise something was wrong so I bought a ticket to the city where I was living and came back there at the same time I did txt him saying that maybe it did not work out like we did expect. He said he did expect something different. I got mad at him and I said he could have told me if something was wrong, we could have fix it and he replied saying he did not know what it is and that he hardly understood me.Now I think that maybe the wrong stuff is that he likes men but he is not ready to face it. And I dont think like that cause Im angry.. The point is that Ive seen pictures of him in a gay club, with gay friends. more than once...The time we spent together he never stoped looking himself at the mirror as if he was a lady. Even when he did not need it as he was wearing a hat! Sometimes, ironing his hair.. using beauty products... you know.He never made me feel like I was the woman. He used to start walking pretending i follow him behind... Did not take my hand, He did not act like a gentlemen, really.Do you think the same way like me?Maybe I wont ever be the one he expect as he is expecting a man instead. :(Sorry about my english guys. Thanks in advance for the advices. x
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reader, ladylon +, writes (8 September 2009):
ladylon is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know its usual where he lives. But he acts like gay sometimes.... Ive seen some comments other guys leave on his FB wall. Like... I love your picture, you are lovely, did you fancy last night with us? and going out with gay people makes me think he has reasons to go to that kind of club, you get me?
Its not only beauty products, its about everything he does...
Im so soo confused! Im shocked!
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reader, LethalInjection-x  +, writes (8 September 2009):
 I can't offer much advice, so I apologise.
However, I will say that using beauty products and looking in the mirror is not a sign of homosexuality, just vanity. Generally vain people are very aloof and perhaps even arrogant in some cases, which could explain other aspects of his behaviour.
Very sorry to hear it didn't go well for you though x
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