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writes:there is a girl i like a lot and i mean a lot i cannot stop thinking about her. she doesn't know me but i see her almost everyday. i just want to tell her how i feel but i know i can't because she already has a boyfriend and i hate him so much.i want to know what is the best way to get noticed by her and how can i have a good chance of being with herthnks and god bless in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): hmmm alrightt well we have establishedd that this girl does have a boyfriend. & seeing as tho she is staying with him, we can assume that she is happy with their relationship, am i right? (well we will just assume). my advice will be to just try & be friendly with her at first. just establish a connection. also, be friendly to her boyfriend. i know if i was that girl, and u were being a jerk to MY boyfriend, i wouldnt want anything to do with you. don' t be bitter about him having her. but keep in mind, if it doesnt work out with her, even with just being friends, you should think that you deserve someone who is just as into you as you are into them. there are always other girls, love. i hope it works out for you.
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reader, Blod +, writes (8 September 2009):
 To begin with, get over this hatred for her boyfriend! It's unhealthy to go round feeling bitter about someone who hasn't really done anything wrong.
Try not to break them up. That won't get you into her good books.
Make yourself seem cool and fanciable. Relax, chill out and go with the flow. Take care of your looks without going over board and don't come across as desperate. If you catch her eye smile at her and be polite. But don't get into trouble with her bf!
You never know, you could pick up some other girl instead.
Good luck. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): Leave her be for now. Wait until they break up and then ask her to go somewhere. Don't tell her your feelings, or she will back off and feel "yucky."
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reader, Blanket  +, writes (8 September 2009):
If she has a boyfriend, then you have to be very patient. Please don't say you hate her boyfriend b/c you don't know the relationship or the type of person he is. If you are jealous, you will never get her attention. Start by speaking to her and complimenting her on clothes, hair etc...but do it every now and then. One day if she is near you or you see her, stike up a conversation about a movie so you can find out what she likes. When you get to know her, tell her you think she is pretty and enjoy talking to her. Once you get her in tuned into you, you want to be smooth (b/c she has a boyfriend) by listening to her and giving her inspirational talk, laughing at all her jokes, and maybe sending flowers (stating the friendship act lol...) Because she has a boyfriend, you have to be the better man. Step up your game. Look your best and always smile at her and speak when you see her (oh yeah-speak to the boyfriend to, it shows class)!Good luck!
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