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anonymous
writes:hi i'v been seeing an old flame for 2mths causal as we are both just out of marriages it was really just 2old mates goin out few kisses n cuddles he is gorgeous in every way make's me feel so special he said we cant get serious as he doest want a relationship so we carried on hangin out.i wouldnt sleep wit him as i didnt want to have casua sex.he wanted sex from the beginning,anyways last nite i couldnt fight it anymore after a very passionate 2 hrs i gave in n we began to have sex it was going great and then he just stopped and said we shouldnt do this... i am so confused he wanted it for so long and wen it finally happened he stopped i dont get it?? Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (10 September 2009):
 well in my opinion there are a few reasons this may have happened. the first is you said that you didnt want sex and he did, but you "gave in", maybe the guy in question may have felt like he had pushed you into a situation you hadnt wanted to be in, and this is what made him change his mind so drastically. another possible reason is that if he has just left a marriage the thought of sleeping with a new sexual partener may have been daunting. but the only way you are going to get a definate answer is to ask this man himself, ring him or face to face just ask him what made him change his mind and where he is at now on where the two of you stand. i hope that helps.
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