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writes:I want to know if I did the right thing:I met a guy at a near by dog park, a neighborhood I am now moving to. His dog was bitten and I made my move offered help (I had a crush on him for awhile). We walked our dogs together and went on a date. We shared a really passionate kiss and kept visiting each other at our apartments because it was so near by and we could walk our dogs. Eventually, he had to move out his apartment into his families to wait for a condo he bought to close. The communication plummeted from everyday to almost zero. He said he didnt have cell phone reception and his father was in the hospital, his dog is ALWAYS sick. I tried to be understanding but he made plans to come to my home and never showed up or called. One week later I got a text apologizing for him disappearing.He called me (the day before my 2-week trip to the uk) and asked for a second chance. I said yes and he buttered me up through emails and chats about how he couldn't wait to see me the sunday i came back.To make this short I got rescheduled from sunday to monday where he showed up 1hr 1/2 late sex then he told me I could come to his new place after wed (he left) but got nothing more than a good morning txt and a blow off when I told him I could swing by on fri because I was in his town.I thought about how we only had one proper date (after 2 1/2 months) and everything else was either in the bed room or walking our dogs. I felt like I was being used for sex (he is 7 yrs older and seemed to have an issue with my age) he canceled anytime we had plans outside our apt. So I texted him on sunday "I really like you but the lack of communication is getting to me. Good luck in your new place and have a great BDay".I'm getting conflicting opinions from friends, which is making me feel conflicted. I honestly do still like him but...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your comments. They are reassuring. I let things lie and I feel great about it. I saw someone write a post on a different website and it helped me understand why he did what he did. I think its hilarious and I thought I share what gave me peace in mind. Note*I don't think this of every 30 year old guy but this one lol I think might fall under this category.
This is the post:
"Every single guy over 30 wants a hot young chick to bang that doesn't have enough self esteem to demand a relationship."
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (8 September 2009):
 I'm sorry to say... he's just not that into you.
:(
When someone likes you, there isn't any second-guessing. You know.
No more chances for him, ok? You deserve better.
Good luck!
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