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writes: Hello people, I have a sex question. My girlfriend has told me that my dick is a little bit larger than she's used to, and we've been having problems finding a good position. If we're not really careful, it comes out, and it's a hassle when I have to get back in. The only position we can do well at the moment is "missionary," which get's dull after a while. While I'm doing fine pleasuring her, it's often difficult for me to reach climax because I have to be so focused on staying in, and if I come out the rhythm is disrupted. Any suggestions regarding what positions might work? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009): i'm assuming by large you mean long and not width wise so try positions that don't allow you to go so deep that will most likely help such as spooning where you lie on your sides and you enter her from behind or lie on your back and have her on top of you that way she can control how deep you go and you get all the bonuses of the perfect view of her riding you. Also if you try positions where she keeps her legs closer together instead of wide open it will also prevent you from going so deep and bonus for you creates tighter sensations for you. hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009): Try entering her from behind, with her on her side. Her backside will act as a spacer to limit how much of you slides in. (that is unless she's rail thin)
or, let her get on top and contol the depth...
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (8 September 2009):
Go slow. Try other things besides just coital intercourse. Have you tried exploring each other, touching, and being sensitive to all of her other spots and vice versa?
If you just have to get down to business, try going very slow and gentle. This way it won't flop out and she won't be apprehensive of you trying to poke it back in the wrong way.
If you take it slow, then she gets a little more time and you stay in longer.
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