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Is thinking of preteen boys ok when I masterbate and am I gay or straight

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Question - (8 September 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, *r.Curious writes:

when i masterbate, is it ok for me to think of preteen boys. i dont know if im straight or gay because sometimes i like to think of girls and sometimes i think of boys. im 14 and i need to know what i am and whats wrong and rite

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A male reader, mr.Curious  United States +, writes (11 September 2009):

mr.Curious is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i thought it was important to add to my question that im also into girls and guys my age too

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009):

All will be revealed to you in time. Maybe you are just a straight guy. I read that most men have 12 encounters with other men before they are considered gay.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009):

When you're 14 all kinds of stuff is happening. The hormones that are swamping you are overwhelming. All kinds of things will make you get off. Don't sweat it -- the stuff in your brain that makes you get off doesn't have anything to do with what will get you off later in life. Just chill.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009):

If you are 14, then its natural to think about guys your own age who you are interested in. As you grow up you should become more attracted to your age and not be thinking about preteen boys. You are still very young, going through puberty and a lot of changes. You could possibly be bisexual and be attracted to both men and women. If that's the case, you just need to accept yourself and not worry about it. You are still so young and have a lot ahead of you. Just try to relax, not stress or worry about anything, and take life as it comes to you. You will grow and mature and you will find yourself in time.

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