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writes:hello there, i made the worse mistake ever! and i need help to fix it. i ended a a year and a half relationship last week, he said that he wants me happy and that if that is what i want then i should go, but now i dont want that i miss him way to much and it was the worse thing i could have ever down! how do i fix this mess? is there a possibility that i could ask him for forgiveness and how do i go about doing this? everyone said i made a good choice about leaving him, but im having my second thoughts i dont want to be with anyone but him... how to i fix this?? thanx R...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): I did the same thing with one of my ex's, i broke things off because i was unhappy, but later thought i'd made a mistake, and she refused me a second chance because i broke her heart and she couldn't be sure that it wouldn't happen again. That was a choice i made and had to live with, however thinking about it more, i realized that i still would've been unhappy if we had got back together with her, and the only reason i felt it was a mistake at the time, was because i was having a hard time getting used to the new change in my life. With time the feelings passed, and i realized that my first choice was the right choice. I'm not saying this is entirely the case with you, but there was a reason you were unhappy in the first place, and would you be unhappy again? If your sure then you can only tell him outright how you feel about everything and get straight to an answer. If he love's you there's a chance he'll forgive you, but not everyone is able to forgive, or at least not in a hurry, but good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): From a males perspective he said that he wanted you to be happy which suggest he still likes you. Just go for it tell him you made a mistake and still love him and all. But sort out the issues you had, sit down and talk everything through and it'll make your relationship stronger.
Hope it all goes well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): Anything is possible; however, something in you knew something about this relationship isn't right for you.
Do you want to play a game of cat and mouse--going back, breaking up, going back. You're just lonely for now and needy. To be happy, you must be so from within.
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reader, Blanket  +, writes (8 September 2009):
Start back calling and ask him out. If he says yes, pour out your feelings and justify why you did what you did. He maybe a little sour at first. If he refuses, then you have to play the waiting game and hope he comes around. Sorry! Good luck!
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