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I cant seem to let go! What's wrong with me?

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Question - (17 September 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I am going to be totally honest here because I think I am missing something, I am a 24 year old female, who has never had a proper boyfriend before, I never seem to click with anyone, however I have met a cute guy who seems interested, we have kissed about four times but I never feel anything, even when he is "touching me up" I just don't feel anything, he wants us to meet up so we can "get it on" because we both fancy each other which we do and it's the next step, I know what you are thinking but all that aside I just never feel comfortbale enough to want to have sex with a guy, even when I "pleasure" myself I don't enjoy it, what is wrong with me, why don't I enjoy it. I'm really into this guy and am thinking about going for it even though it makes me very easy but I don't want to come across as stupid for not knowing what to do, he has been about a bit. He is the first guy ever that I have fancied and I think about him all the time. What is wrong with me, I just can't seem to let go. Any advice?

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