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Should I make an advance or back off?

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Question - (17 September 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi all,

this summer i met a girl. I wasn't immediatley attracted to her, but we've become quite good friends. As i say, i didn't immediatley feel anything romantic, but i'm a firm believer in personality, and that it can make or break someone. Well as i've got to know her it's clear that it makes her, and i've developed quite a soft spot. However, she goes away to uni next week, and so i feel i may be getting into dangerous territory. Her university isn't far away, but it still seems like a bad idea, and i feel a little uneasy about the whole thing. She only came out as bi a few weeks ago, and she still seems quite vulnerable. She's going very fast, although we're only in the early stages of getting to know each other. any advice? do you think i should maybe just back off?

sorry if this was a little unclear.

thank you x

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