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writes:As a guy who has kept his virginity into his 20s, how would you feel if your potential first girlfriend had over 6 years of sexual experience? Could this relationship still work? Would you be wishing that she had waited too? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): I am a virgin in my 20s.I'm still a virgin for a couple of reasons. First, I never had a lot of opportunities and second, the opportunities I did have were all one night stands and I want a relationship.The sexual past of a girl wouldn't really bother me. Its about feeling comfortable with the person you are with. I have insecurities, confidence issues etc that are all down to a lack of experience. But once I get over the hurdle I'm sure that I will be fine.It all comes down to the individual but I do not see it being a big problem if you are in a committed relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): Some virgin guys wouldn't mind. But that is a small number. I think most of those guys are the ones who would have gotten laid in their teens but they didn't get the chance.
When you are talking about guys who willingly chose to abstain then usually a lot fewer of them don't care about a girls past history.
Im an older virgin and I just wouldn't get into a relationship with a girl with 6 years of experience. Sorry.
Im not trying to stick my nose up at everyone who has sex but this is my life too. Lets face it having a partner with no prior sexual history has some benefits.
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (17 September 2009):
I guess one has to ask, did the guy remain a virgin by choice or lack of opportunity? If I was 23, and so was the girl I was involved with (and she started having sex at 17), I'd likely feel that I was a LUCKY guy, and that she just might know a thing or two.
But, I have to ask the question... HOW WOULD I KNOW THIS?
You don't owe him any answers about your sexual past... Don't disclose too much... # of partners, age of loosing virginity, location, max # of folks you've had sex w/ at one time, same sex encounters... biggest cock... none of this matters... keep the focus on your relationship. I could careless about how many men my wife has slept with, or if she's ever had sex with a woman... what I care about is that I love her, she loves me...
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