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Would you stay in a marriage where you aren't loved?

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Question - (17 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 September 2009)
A female age , anonymous writes:

What are the signs that your husband loves you?

I feel my husband does not love me, and i wonder, if you could describe, how you would feel loved.

I just want to make sure I'm not mistaken ,when I think he does not love me. Because would you stay in a marriage where you don't feel loved?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (17 September 2009):

Rather than wondering what he's thinking about and what his motives might be....

Why don't you just sit him down and tell him: "I don't feel like you love me any more and it makes me wonder if you want to leave me."

If you can't communicate with him then you can't blame him for drifting away.

You have to put the effort in as much as he does to make this work. There's a strong chance that he's just got into a rut and has absolutely no idea he's doing things that may make you think these things.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (17 September 2009):

StudentOfLife agony auntI would stay in a marriage where I don't feel love because I've fell and got back in love with my partner in the past.

Love got ups and downs, you have to make your decision when you're in a "up" and stick to them when you're in a "down".

A good read on the matter is the book called "The 5 love languages" by Gary Chapman. He studied relationships for quite some time and the end result is in this book, it helped me in many ways relationship wise and I'm sure it could do the same thing with yours.

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