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writes:Hello :)okay so there are two guys on my mind right now, and I am having a very hard time choosing which one to go for.Guy one is very funny, he's very musical and really nice. However we only really talk online and we don't talk much at school, but I really like his personality. However I have no idea if he likes me or not, all of his friends know I fancy him (no idea how they found out...) so there's a good chance that he knows, but he hasn't said anything about it, and I'm not going to tell him, every time I have told a guy I liked him I get "I think of you more like a little sister" response, which doesn't bother me THAT much, but still.Guy number two is one of my closest friends, he is also very funny, and we talk all the time (online and in person.) He tells me everything, and I tell him everything too and I trust so much. However he is a big womanizer and everytime he hugs me or pinches my cheeks or compliments me, it's hard to tell if he likes me, or if I'm just a regular girl to him. I like him so much. There was a point about 6 months ago when I really liked him, I told him, and got the "little sister" resonse... I got over that, and no longer had a crush on him. Now I do again, but I like him ALOT. I wouldn't say I love him, but I think that's just because I have guy number one on my mind and because I'm not with him. He makes me feel so special, but I can't tell if it's genuine or if he thinks I'm just a piece of meat who just so happens to be a really good friend. It's so confusing! Also can you help me on how to improve my relationship with them? Thankyou so much!! :)
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reader, StraightEdge777  +, writes (18 September 2009):
Honestly with guy 2 getting the little sister responce sucks but it'll most likely stay that way. Also with guy 2 you call him a womenizer which is an immediate red flag to not become anything more than friends. Now with guy 1 I suggest that you 2 start hanging out in school or just hang out with eachother not online. This will not only help you 2 to get closer but also help you decide if your feelings for him are true or not. So I hope this helps and best of luck with this!
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