A
male
age
36-40,
*llithid
writes:I just got out of a three year relationship with a girl that was not really right for me (there was love, but a great deal of immaturity), but she was really fun to serve in bed. (I mostly gave to her, not the reverse, and we only went to third base.)When I gave her oral though, I would get her 4-5 climaxes in about half an hour on normal days. On good days, I got her 8-12 in an hour of oral and manual stimulation. We never finished until she had at least a couple.Is this normal? If I move from giving 4-10 orgasms in a day, to a new girl taking an hour to get 1, I know I'm going to feel like something of a failure for her. (Not to mention that it's incredibly fun to hand a panting, dehydrated, unable-to-balance girl a glass of water that she can't speak well enough to ask for and can't sit up well enough to comfortably drink without assistance.)So on AVERAGE, what are my odds that the next girl will be able to enjoy my efforts? Should I just admit that this last girl was uncommonly responsive? Is it reasonable to expect that the next girl has a good likelihood of being satisfying to orally please? I'm more than willing to put forth effort, but are most women even capable of having so many?
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reader, cheated  +, writes (17 September 2009):
yes every woman is different and also her partner makes the difference. my wife has told me and i do truely believe her, that l am the only one who has every made her cum. but this didnt just happen from the first time.now depending on her mood and me doing things the right way l can actually get here to multi orgasm continiously to the point she squiurts. now thats a special suprise when doing it by oral..
so yes every woman is different in different situations.
my key is to please my wife and by pleasing her it is pleasing me........
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (17 September 2009):
 It might be more common than you think. And that is ALL I'm going to say about THAT.
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