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writes:okay the everpopular question..is it better to fake an orgasm to give your guy more confidence..or is it better to just let him know he hasn't..help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): NEVER fake an orgasm you will only blast his confidence as well as everything else about your sexual relationship communication is key remember that. if he is doing something wrong let him know. thats the only way to improve in bed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): She was a "silent lover". She never said anything.Later on she started to rub her clit for orgasm while we had sex.
Later, when shit happened we started to communicate properly. She admitted that she faked it alot in early days.
For years we learned little about each other's sexuality. There was no communication.
Do one thing. Avoid that!
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (17 September 2009):
No,please for HIS SAKE, do NOT do this... some girls think that this is a good thing to do for a guy, but it's very hurtful and here's why...
First, it's teaching him that his technique is GREAT and that he can make you cum. In realtity, you need to teach him how to make you orgasam. By NOT teaching him, you ARE teaching him. He'll APPRECIATE it for the rest of his life, and so will the women who he makes love to.
Second, you deserve to have a great sex life, teach him how to do it.
Third, if this relationship lasts a long time, once you start faking you're NOT going to be able to all of a sudden stop... that's a really bad thing.
Men LOVE to be taught how to please a woman, do him a favor, take him to bed, and teach him what to do... learn with him... enjoy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): Umm, tough question... I faked it with my last boyfriend and then he thought he didn't have to change anything or try anything new for the whole 3 years we were together. I don't recommend that!! Once you start, it's impossible to stop because how would you explain that without badly hurting his feelings?
Now I think it is much better to tell him how good it feels, but be honest if you don't orgasm. Then the 2 of you can work on it together and have a lot of fun working out how to make you come. Each woman is different, so it's quite complicated to work out how it's done for you - it isn't a bad reflection on him!
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