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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:this is kinda personal but here we goI was a virgin before I met my current boyfriend, and he has had his fair share of partners, we havnt been having sex for long, and I feel like I'm awful at it, Im very self critical, and feel like he could always be comparing me to girls from his past.also I havnt been on top and he keeps bugging me to but for some reason the thought scares the hell out of me.so my questions are: - How do I gain confidence in bed so I can be more aggressive and make the experience better for both of us? - What are some good tips on going on top so my nerves will be calmedPLEASE HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): Relax. Nobody your age is "good" at sex yet. And for guys your age, sex doesn't have to be "good" it just has to be sex. Once you get him hard, just be sure to maintain contact with his penis during sex. If you wander around licking him all over and let him get soft things won't go well.
If you are going to be on top, make sure you are in great physical shape. You need strong legs because you will be moving up and down using muscles you never use on a regular basis. If you tire out it will not be a good experience for either of you. I have never found a girl who could stay on top until we both orgasm.
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