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writes:Hey everyoneI broke up with my boyfriend of 8months about 10 days ago over the phone. Was sort of mutual - his lack of communication for the 3 weeks previously had annoyed me intensely, and also given me a vague idea that he wasn't feeling the whole relationship thing anymore. We hadn't met for 6 weeks - he works at sea and I've just changed uni to the other end of the UK - but in 3 days we're meeting up, going out to lunch, and he's dropping me off at the airport. All as friends. How weird is that going to be? Luckily I'm not the emotional type - I cried for literally less than 2 minutes when I hung up the phone - though the fact that I'm already quite interested in someone else already probably helps!Basically, any advice for meeting up? I doubt I'll see him again after this, or if I do, it'll be months off, and I want him to remember me well! Thanks!
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reader, iloveyhoo +, writes (4 October 2009):
 when you meet, just hug him as a friend and be like, so hows life going ?
just act normally,it might be a bit awkward and have a few silences, but just try and make conversation.
just take it stey by step, if something does go wrong and i mean seriously wrong, tell him you need the toilet really bad, and go, think about stuff then go back to him, once your mind has been refreshed, and start a new subject
good luck x
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