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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Snooping is wrong!Well, dear aunts and uncles I made a STUPID move by looking on my man's cell phone, no excuse really but I did it only because he's been acting aloof so to speak for a few weeks and I couldn;t understand why. Even after talking to him I got no real answer other than I don't know so..... Anyhow, it was a Dumb thing to do but it's done and he asked me if I did and I would never lie to him and said yes. He is really hurt as he feels I don't trust him now and that's not the case even though it looks that way. His ex (the stalker) is the one I don't trust and even though that's not even a good reason it is why. Let me explain, he is going out for a boys night with the ex's in law and I just had a feeling she would Pop up, now I know I should've taken into consideration he would handle that but being a girl I got carried away and poof I did a stupid thing by snooping. Guess I need to let my past bad exp. go and be a better person.My question is how do I make up for being a Jerk and coming across as not trusting him? I only wanted to see if his ex called and I can't say enough how stupid this was of me but it's done and I only want to make it right. Your words of wisdom are appreciated and boy I'll never do that again for sure.Signed, Sorry for being a Snooping Jerk
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 October 2009):
Well you have to forgive yourself first! If you let this get to you, you'l lfind it harder to move on. All right, you snooped. Now you've just got to keep reassuring him you love him and trust him. Don't keep apologizong for it, jut keep loving him and giving him hugs and such. He needs to feel that youu trust him, and to do that you need to make sure he knows he's loved.
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