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*sabella1987
writes:Please help! Me and my boyfriend been together for 2 years.But some reason we have to break up.I moved with him in his country.I used to work before but all the money I had I give him to buy cars and rent.I have no money right now.So,Now we have to move on.He don't want to give me any panny.My mom bought me airplane ticket and I have to stay with my parent for awhile.Me and my parents are fighting most of the time.The reason we fight about is they don't like the way I dress up and I go out alots.(at night). Now my mom put rule I can't go out anymore and dress up nice.Like jean and t shirt.(not too much showing breast).So,I am not there yet they put rule and stuff. I have nowhere to live if I broke up with my boyfriend.Only in my parents house.My question is how to stay in their house not get fighing and stuff.how to be cool.They don't want me to have my ownn place, especially my dad.He don't want mt to rent my own apartment.He want me to stay home.But my plan is stay home until I find job and finish my school.Please help me!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 October 2009):
You're at their house, so you have to respect their rules. However, you don't need to let them decide what you have to wear. Say to them clearly that your clothes represent who you are, and to change them would be asking you to suddenly change your whole character. As for going out, maybe don't go out during the week as much? Or at least come back a a slightly better hour? (not 3am in the morning). Don't let them bully you into changing, but make sure you do respect that it is their house. Ultimately, if it isn't working out, you'd be better moving and explaining that you are who you are, and they cant chnge you. Hope that's helpful a bit.
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