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female
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anonymous
writes:So i met this guy in my internship, and I felt the chemistry as soon as we met. He is really nice to everyone, so I can't tell if he is "especially nice" to me. All interns usually go to lunch together, but we happen to have a sweet-tooth, so we get cookies together after. I thought we were going to eat them close to the office, but he walked me to a little park. I noticed that something was different. He seemed more guarded, less talkative...almost nervous. Then my birthday came, and I thought since i wouldn't see him that day, i wouldn't hear from him. But the last day i saw him, he wished me happy birthday and told me to call him if i was going to be in the city. Well, on my bday he texted me happy birthday (in spanish, because i am from colombia, lol) and asked me if i was going to be in the city. My plans ended up falling apart, and i sent a mass text to see if anyone wanted to go out in the city and he and another intern girl said they could and he picked us up in the metro, took me to this really cute cafe with music and books and good food, then we went around bar hoping. He began saying that he thought girls should send clearer signals because guys are oblivious, but he also said girls over-analize everything (here's proof) and i said guys should be more forward and go for who they want. Then he dropped me off in the metro, gave me a big hug, didn't hear from him till Monday at work.At work he had that same vibe he had when we were eating the cookie. A little more distant. I asked him how his hike on Sunday was, and he had very short answers for everything. But he talked up a storm with everyone else. So I tried to use the spanish appeal, and i speaking to him in spanish to see if he would answer me, but he thought it'd be funny to answer to everything i said in english, because that would get to me or he was embarrassed...i don't know. Then he started showing me all the Colombian music he had on his ipod and singing to them a little bit. He told me that i should burn him a cd, and then he'll think about speaking spanish with me. I was kind of put off by how odd he was on monday, so on wednesday I didn't pay much attention to him, he went out of his way to ask me how i was doing, but after that he went back to being hot/cold. I wasn't feeling too well on weds. so I was a little anti-social, and he left with an awkward goodbye, but then my coworker told me that the sag guy told her to tell me that if i had been paying attention, he would have said goodbye to me and talked to me in spanish...but it was too late because he was gone. I just wish I knew where this is going, because the semester will be over and we'll all go back to our respective colleges and i was hoping we could have some type of fling...thoughts?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 October 2009):
Well this is a little difficult. First of all, remember that you're an intern. So you might want to put all your energy into that just at this moment. However, if you really like this, guy, then you're just going to have to talk to him about how you feel. He's interested in you, but may not know if youre interested in him. So you need to talk to him. However, remember my first point. Maybe focus on that internship at the moment.
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