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writes:When guys are hot and cold, say your speaking to a guy online and one day hes being flirty and giving you a few compliments about how you looked that day, the next day ..hes doesnt seem to fussed. Do they back off because they think they've been too foward?Dont realise there doing it?Saying the same thing to 5 other girls?Also...what are signs that a guy likes a girl in that way? (things they'l say, way he'l act etc)
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reader, rcn  +, writes (2 October 2009):
 Which mind are you wanting to know about, the thought producing mind or the brain in his pants?
In order to get what you're looking for on here, if you're meeting people on line, that's quite often a horny persons sanctuary. You're going to have to analyze their conversation. Where does it seem as if their mind is focused? Do they hold regular conversation, or just flirt, give compliments and talk about sex? Do they ask you how your day was, and seem as if they're paying attention and wanting to know. On-line can be a dangerous place to meet people, there are many weird people out there, so you need to keep your guard up, and really pay attention to signs that may signal something being wrong.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 October 2009):
Welcome to men. We're actually more complicated than we seem to be. :)
Being a man, I'll try and help.
Guys do back off when they think they've been to forward with someone they just like, and don't necessarily fancy. Yes, we do realize that we're doing it, it's a very concsious decision we make. Saying the same thing to five other girls means that we like five girls a lot, but don't fancy them, or are testing them to see how they react. If a guy likes you, all the compliments will be for you and nobody else, we won't stop with them either!
If there's a guy you're interested in and you're here to find out whether he's interested in you, I'd say that it's unlikely. However, that doesn't mean you can't ge to know him more! Because if you let him get to know you and you get to know him, feelings can develop. Get to know him more and see where it leads. :)
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