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writes:Hey, needing a lil advice on this please.Ok a little while ago i asked wether telling my ex i still loved him was a good idea.I didnt tell him in the end, but he told me he was sure he did, but didnt wanna ask me back out incase he was wrong.See reading this, im thinking "hes hesitating, this means i shouldnt bother with him" But like even after breakn up 4 4mnths we still like each other, jst the reasons y we broke up are luming, but he sees ive changed. But he worries that if he asks me out that he'll see he doesnt really love me, and doesnt want to hurt me again.So when he goes on holiday hes going to pull another, and see how he feels, like if its the same feeling, or regret and wanting me.i duno, should i tell him that i cnt jst wait for him and hes gotta tell me straight now, and not me wait 4 him 4 2 weeks 4 a 50/50 chance of gettn him back basicaly :/
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 October 2009):
Good girl! You've seen that you have to give this guy an ultimatim. So do just that. See what he says. If he can't commit to you, don't bother with him. And certainly don't wait for him. You deserve a good guy who knows how he feels about you, not a guy who's going to play with you. Give him the ultimatum! If he doens't respond, then you'll have to move on.
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reader, lostinafghan  +, writes (2 October 2009):
if you love him like you say then tell him. he says he loves you but is afraid he is wrong? maybe he doesnt want to look retarded by saying he does and then getting shot down by you not saying it or feeling it back. if you love him tell him and put some faith into it. 2 weeks isnt a long time. if you cant wait 2 weeks then you dont love him like you say. by telling him you do might keep him from exploring. never hurt to be honest ya know
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