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writes:My ex boyfriend and I dated for alittle over a year, we broke up 6 months ago it was a mutal break up mainly because we were both in different points in our lives. He is a lead singer in a band and was very focused on his music and I had to concentrate on my education Weare both 23 years old. We have remained friends and since breaking up started new relationships. Even though we are both in different relationshis and happy we can't seem to stay away from each other. We call each other on a daily bases, at any hour through out the day or night. (I have had him call me after having sex with his new gf). We sneack around to see each other when ever we can, but we have only had sex a few times, neither one of us want to cheat. A typical day for us would be getting away from our current other and jsut driving some where like a lake or beach and just being with each other (kissing.cuddling) I am really confused why would we both agree to break up if we can;t stand beign away form each other? and why are we both still with other people if we love each other.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 October 2009):
Oh dear. This is a mess. First of all, please end it with your current boyfriend. It isn't going to work with him and he needs to be free to find someone else that will be for him. Secondly, unless your ex actually wants to commit, he's using you for sex and keeping you on a string. End it with your current boyfriend and speak to your ex about what this relationship means to you. If he doesnt want a relationship, then he's using you for sex and you need to move on.
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