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writes:hey cupid. my problem is i can't ask girl out. her name is ashley. by the way, this is at school. i started noticing that i like her. and later like 2~3 days, she started liking me (im sure about 90%). that was before the big test so about end of school year. so before school ends, i was going to ask her out. my guidance teacher was old and he didnt care what student does so at the test, i sat next to her. pretending talking to my friends. 1 day before i was going to ask her out next day, i was really ready. Even i saw a dream. Nah. The next, day when i look at her, i couldn't talk to her because she so.. like cute you know. I'm shy. Lastly, i didnt get to ask her out.Right now. I still cant ask her out. I'm trying to stop this shyness. Please i need help. before she starts liking another guy.
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reader, meriem1421  +, writes (2 October 2009):
 ok dude!!! u really gotta beat that shyness!!my situation is like urs.i really like this boy who goes 2 the same school n he likes me 2 n it really pisses me off that he didnt ask me out yet n guess what??cause we're both the shy type!!! so u better pluck up some courage i mean ur the man!!! girls can be shy but not boys!!! they always have 2 make the first move!!!
just try 2 breathe n relax n make her feel that u respect her n that u dont wanna go out with her because of...dirty stuff u know! but because u really like her from ur heart n the proof is that u r too shy rom her!!
go 4 it boy!! go get het!!! i hope it works!!
let me now how it ends!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 October 2009):
Practise what you're going to say in front of a mirror! Mske sure it all makes sense and doens't sound over done or anything like that. Then, take her aside by herself and tell her how you feel. There isn;t any other way to do it, and don't wait around! Be brave and ask her before you end up sitting there wondering aboout what might have been
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reader, Theresa123 +, writes (2 October 2009):
Hey this is a dog eat dog world...just remember "boyfriends" are speed bumps, not stop signs...If you like her, ask...if she likes you she will take you up on that. Only if someone is married and took the vows should you stay out of that relationship.
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reader, isabella1987 +, writes (2 October 2009):
Well,if you really like that girl you should show her how you feel about her.Don't be shy :D she won't bite you right!Don't you have any friend to help you to tell her. Like your friend start tell her that you like her and stuff like that.So,she really sure know you like her.So, its more easy to tell her.Another thing, if you know her phone number you can text her or email her.That's another way.Important things is she have to know right! So, Good luck with this.I hope you get her fast.Don't take too much time.You don't want to loosing her.Tell her.if you think she like you(90%) you'll be OK.Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2009): Hi
So, you are shy about asking a girl out? Because she is special, etc. So, have you tried being friends with her? Start with just saying 'hi'. Accidently bump into her across a corridor or something... offer to carry her books for her (if she's carrying anything), if not just walk next to her, remember to put a lot of space, so she feels secure with you... don't hurry or try to be a cooler version of yourself. Women can always tell when a guy is being fake. Don't worry about being a little shy. If she really likes, she will work it out by herself and a little shyness is so... attractive.
Also, if you want to absolutely impress her and sweep her off her feet, try to really listen to her, walk with her a little, and if there's a door, open it for her!!! Believe me, we are all looking for a gentleman!!! She will be wowed!!! Also, if these little scenarios go off well, bump into her more often, connect with her over some common ground and pay her an honest compliment. Then, ask her out!!
THe one way to make sure that she wants you to is look at her... if she blushes or smiles and looks away, well she is into you!! Men like to make contact when attracted to a girl, we girls like to look away!!! SO, best of luck. If you still cannot work up the courage, then, after a nice little meeting (informal one) call her up and ask her out!!!
So, well, you can't delay it for too long because of the obvious risks!!!!
Well, best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2009): Dude ask her out already. No more advice than that, grow a pair and ask her out. What are you scared of, that she will say no, well welcome to life.
Go for it, in fact do it Today and lett us know how you get on.
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