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female
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26-29,
*loveyhoo
writes:me and this boy,he is one year older, were going out for about 2-3months. everyone knew we were meant to be, but rumors got to me, and my trust in him started to fade, so we ended it. then he realised how much he loved me and how much he wanted me back, but i wasn;t ready to go out with him again even though i still loved him. this went on for ages, and yet we still didnt link again. then just recently, he got with this girl. everyone was telling me that he only got with this girl to make me jealous, and he wanted me to go out with him again and that he still loved me. he told people he would even dump her just to go out with me again, so i suppose he did try and move on but it didnt work. then they broke up, me and him still talk through text and msn, but for some reason we can;t talk that much in school, i find it awkward and hard :S anyway then one of my best friends knew how much i liked him and how much he liked me. well she did have a reputation, of stealing other peoples mans and all that, even if it were her best mates boy. loads of boys fancy her and she is a flirt. anyway then he started to hang out with her more, thinking it would get me all jealous. of course it did, but i didnt show it. he is still hanging out with this girl and apparently he told her that he loves her abit but not as much as he loves me. but i have recently just met this guy, and now me and him are linking, i probably speak to my ex more than i speak to my boyfriend. i do love my boyfriend but no where near as much as i love my ex. he still wants another chance with me, and i wuld like to get bak together with him but the thing is something is stopping me and i dont knoe wot. anyway, so yeah now i have just realised that i dont really love my boyfriend, and i love my ex WAY more. all the rumors going round about him and my best mate, well i dont know if they are true. my ex swore on my life that they wasnt true. now he has just told me that he would link her, but he doesn;t love her. so i am really confused, and don;t know wot too do. :S its really getting to me now, and i think i am going to dump my boyfriend as i need time to think stuff out, and see where my life takes me. all im really stuck about is should i get back with my ex, or see if i can trust him more, or like would he even be worth it. he honestly is the one guy i will never stop loving, and i really don;t know what to do..what would you do if you was in my position, and any useful adivce would really help thanks :) x
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (3 October 2009):
 Hi,I think that you need to break up with your boyfriend. You are not over your ex and it is not fair to him.Now, the reason why you broke up with him is because of rumors. Rumors cannot be proven and are usually made up. Of course, rumors would make anyone suspicious but to break up because of what other people say and have no proof is not fair. He could have done those things but he also could have nothing to do with it. Anyway, you say for some reason you can't go back to him despite the fact you love him. I think it is because you don't trust him and you are afraid the rumors are true. (I could be wrong but I am pretty sure this is why.)You need to decide what you want. Do you want to get back together with him or not. If you want to get back together with him you need to talk to him. Remember he has a girlfriend so he might not break up with her to go to you. You would need to trust him and forget the rumors.If you don't want to get back together with him you need to get over him and don't get into another relationship til you are over him. (I think this is the better option.) Good Luck!
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