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*pendy
writes:i was with my ex for 2years and he really hurt me.. like he'd be talking to other girls, cheating..lying etc: but i stayed with him cos i was young naive and thought i was in love and the sex was great.. but i finally had the courage to leave him.is been nnearly2years now.. and he still calls etc: saying he misses me, miss the sex..wants me back.. so today we went out then ended u at his place.. he tried everything he could to get me to have sex with him but it didnt work..i got fed up..so i had pics of a guy ive been getting to know on my phone and showed him he was my bf.. he loved me and hes waiting till am ready to have sex..hes not rushing me/... then my ex went all sad and i walked out..( did it cos my ex say he doesnt care i have a bf he still wants me) so i did that to get him off my back.but i feel soo bad now.. i dont even know why..i should feel happy cos this guy treated me like **** and cos i was young and didnt know any better he took advantage..anything you wana say to me please?? i feel kinda bad..:) am 20 in December
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reader, Carrot2000  +, writes (7 November 2009):
 Don't feel bad for standing up for yourself and not accepting bad behavior from this guy. You totally did the right thing!
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reader, greaves +, writes (7 November 2009):
definitly dont go back to the guy, if he cheated and lyed then he'll do the same now, sounds to me like he's down on his luck "playing the field" so hes trying to get an easy lay..
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 November 2009):
You haven't done a thing wrong. He cheated, so feel good that you dumped him. He would have only hurt you again. Don't bother with him, focus on yourself for a while and you'll meet a far better guy. Don't waste your time with someone who'll hurt you.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (7 November 2009):
 I think you played it well to be honest!
Stick to your guns & dont jump into bed with him. Your instincts tell you he's a bad egg. Trust them x
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