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I don't know where to start trying to repair this friendship...?

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Question - (7 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *atherted21 writes:

hi,

months ago i fell in love with a girl completely, she had a boyfriend she did things with me... weve recently started uni and stupidly whilst drunk (i know thats no real excuse) told her sister what i had done with her sister. The girl who i did things with said 1 month ago she never wanted to see me again, and has since ignored me in clubs etc... however she has admitted that shes as much to blame in a sense as i am. 1 month on im finding it so difficult to move on because these feelings for this girl are so strong. i really want to speak to her and tell her i miss her as a friend, because i know we'll never be together but knowing were ignoring each other (its difficult for me and since we were really best friends at the same time as doing things) im presuming it cant be easy for her, i want to text her telling her that i miss her as a friend etc, i dont even know where to start though or what to do, any advice?

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (7 November 2009):

Denizen agony auntYou have just been given one of life's lessons. It's tough. You need to be able to maintain confidences, particularly with friends. Now you are paying the penalty. There's no easy way back.

I take it you have already tried flowers and a sorry note.

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