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30-35,
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writes:3 days a go my boyfriend of 2 1/2 months broke up with me because he is too busy and doesn't want to keep me holding on, he says he want's to be with me and that he does love me but doesn't know when he will have the time to spend time with me.I love him i do, i really do...i am going to crazy, i miss him a lot and i told him that last night on the phone.I told him we can work it out and that i want to be with him, but he keep's insisting that us being friend's well be best (but i don't think so).I told him that i understand that he's busy and that his decision is stupid. i asked if he me and him will ever be together again, he told me i don't know, i ask if when he does have time will i be the girl he wants, he told me he didn't know...God that hurt. But, i think he said to not give me hope and keep me hanging on to him, but i know deep in my heart, he's the one for me. He told me i was going to be the girl in his life and everything, we promised each other a lot, and now he taking everything away from me including my heart. I told him i was here for me and he told me he was here for me too, why can't we just be together of we both love each other? and want our relationship? we are broken up over a problem me and him can fix.I text him after we got off the phone, i told him i missed and love him and that of he would me meet half way, we can make it and all that, but he didn't text me back or call me again, so hopefully he's thinking over his decision.I'm in love with him, and i am scared to tell him...he's my everything and i would do anything for him. How do i get him to see that i am holding on to him because i love him? and that he's making a mistake by trying push me away?How do i get my love back?Please don't tell me to move on because that's not a option nor do i want to.fact's about us:-we are both 18-he liked me first, then i started like him-knew each other when the summer started-went out on 8/16/09 - 11/4/09-he said i love you first-he's my first bf ( no it's not puppy love)-we both love each other and want each other-he's busy because he works and goes to church a lot because he's a preacher-we live about 25minutes away from each other if we take the bus.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 November 2009):
I'm going to have to tell you the truth here, and that is that he has finished it because he's not interested in a relationship at all at this moment. He has said he's too busy with his life, and he hasn't replied because he's finished it, not because he's thinking it over. I hate to break your heart, but he's not the guy for you. If he was, he would have found a way to be with you no matter what. A guy in love does that. At the moment, he is more focused on sorting out his own life. I'm afraid you're going to have to be very brave and move on, no matter how hard it is. Take your time, really focus on yourself for now and see what happens. All the best.
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