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I think I've lost the love of my life

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Question - (7 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

please help, ive lost the love of my life, ive scared her off, im in love with this girl we have known each other for a couple of months she is definitely interested but i told her that i love her and she has started to pull back and i dont know what to do she means a lot to me help!

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A male reader, duce00 United States +, writes (7 November 2009):

duce00 agony auntPeople behave rather oddly around the subject of love if you haven't noticed. I think some women are more interested in being an object of affection rather than being in love. While she might not have this kind of issue it is something to keep in mind as you try to find a good woman.

You might also want to check your self and evaluate whether you are coming on too strong and if so why. Some guys get all head over heels and they're minds get all messed up. It is endearing in one way but the flip side is you can make HUGE mistakes and sometimes she is just not worth your love.

If she doesn't reciprocate your feelings then you have to face that you were wrong about her being "the one". The love of your life must feel the same way about you by definition. Love is to be shared not thrown away.

RELAX...breath...take it easy...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009):

back off a bit and give her some space. Let her get used to this and soon it will all be fine

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A male reader, Friendly Bear United Kingdom +, writes (7 November 2009):

"I think I've lost the love of my life" That's not true. She's out there, but it may not be the person you thought. Learn from the mistake you made and come across as stronger in the future.

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