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writes:Hey...where to start? hmm...i was jus lookin for some peoples advice on ma current relationship status...Early July 2008 i started chattin to two friends over msn...they lived kinda close to where im from in the UK..i fell for both of these fellas, bu it seemed that one was more interested in me than the other, il call the one hu didnt seem so interested L and the one hu was B..well anyways L and i sorta stopped chattin cus B told me he hada gf..then when it came to arrangin to meet B it turned out hed JUST started gettin serious with a girl he was kinda seeing so i backed off...he did however give me his younger brothers email address and told me i should give him a shout cus i was his type and we were headin out to the same place at the weekend...so i did! il call his lil brother H. :Lwell anyways its now a year and three months from H and i started chattin! and i LOVE him to bits...id even go as far as to say im in love with him...do you think this is possible havin never met him? hes gone thru quite a rough time the last year anda bit and everytime we go to meet something bad happens and he cant...alla my mates say he treats me bad..and even his friends hu i chat to on msn say hes a D*** to me...bu never the less i still really like him..i stand by him thru everything...like hes jus amazing in my eyes! although lately..weve been arguein all the time, and iv becum quite insecure and unsure if he likes me =S hes away in england for uni and im at home so its gunna be impossible for us to meet up anytime soon...hes become quite distnt and we dont text or chat as much as we used to...i dont know wat im doing wrong...im constantly paranoid that im not good enough for him anymore...yet when he texts me i get the BIGGEST smile on my face..he can make me feel so beautiful, like im someone amazin...when he tries that is.. when he gets me down tho...i feel like i cant be bothered waitin anymore on him ta come be with me..i dont see the point when he treats me bad at times...but anytime he goes to walk away..i get upset and beg him not to leave...however recently...L hu is also best friend with H, told me that he loves me...that hes always really liked me and that he cant stop thinkin about me..and that im constantly on his mind...and being honest with myself..i love him too! hes brilliant...but the thing is...i love H! and i wanna be wae H! bu then when L texts me...i wanna be with him...i dont know wat to do...like L has never treated me bad...never bad me feel bad about myself...when im textin L it feels like the way it did with me and H before we fell into this bad patch...i dunno wat to do...i wanna be with them both...but i know i cant! i know if i walk away from H il break his heart...but like...ata same time we havent even been together yet...tho if i choose to be with L, hed drop everything and id be his girl right away! but then wed both loose H, id loose him even as a friend...but i dont know how much longer i can wait on H to be with me? and i dont know how i can subtly flirt with L without hurtin him and leadin him on? has anyone any suggestions? if u need more information about the situation il answer all questions! i REALLY need some help with this and none of my own friends want to listen anymore, theyr all feed up hearin about H and how up and down we are =( please help x
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