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writes:Hey :)On bonfire night I met this really funny and nice guy. We hit if off big time and I was wondering how could I get closer to him? He goes to another school in the same town as my school is. We have the same sense of humor and things so that's good. I don't want to seem too eager that I scare him off or anything. So I want to ask him to hang out again without sounding too eager. And if you have any other tips that would be great :D Thakyou in advanced! Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 November 2009):
Just say you really liked spending time with him and would love to hang out a bit more. He'll be quite flattered if he likes you, and I'm sure he'll be up for meeting. You don't need to say the word 'date' or anything like that. Just say you'd like to hang out and see where it leads.
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reader, Coolguy +, writes (7 November 2009):
Hi,AS a guy, i can only give you some tips on how you could attract someone like me. You may want to give him some signs that you like him. You could smile whenever he talks to you, laugh whenever he cracks a joke (even though its dry), stroke your hair when you are together with him and touch him lightly on his arms. After giving these signs, you may need to lay back a bit and let him make some moves to show that he is also interested. It's not clear whether he gave you his number or if you have his number. You also didn't say how old he is. If you have his number, you can wait for about 4-5 days and just call him to say hi. If he gave you his e-mail, you can chat on line and later ask him for his number. But dont ask him out when you first call or it will spoil the fun. Men like to chase but sometimes will like to have some signs on what moves he should make. Calling a guy is a good sign that you are interested in him as many women find it difficult to call. After about 4-8 weeks if he still doesnt get the message, as a last resort, you can ask him 'when are you going to ask me out?' but that should be after you've just chatted with him for that long. Asking him out too quickly may make you look desperate and uninteresting. It's more complicated since you are in different schools, but take things slowly, dont put your mind too much on it and let nature take it's course. All the best.CG.
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