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writes:Okay... So I'm 13 and I'm 5'1 and I don't think I'm ever gonna get a bf! I have blond hair, blue eyes, but I'm 150lbs... Would you go out with me?! Do you think I'll ever get a bf? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 November 2009):
You're only 13! Of course you will. Take your time getting to know guys, and let them get to know you and you'll find your Mr Right.
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reader, generalist  +, writes (7 November 2009):
gey gal...
getting boyfrind has nothing to do with how physically you look..
just be true to what you are and you will find the one who loves you.....believe me
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (7 November 2009):
 Of course you will. Do not be in such a hurry. There are also plenty of chubby guys around, but a few simple measures can trim you up. Try walking a mile or two a day, cut back on whatever you know contributes to the problem and please realize that you are very young with a long life ahead of you. Pay heed to common sense things like leading a healthy lifestyle, avoid dangerous situations, and when you attain the age to drive, be very careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009): no i wont go out and lose 59 pds
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009): hon, im 5'6 110lbs, 20 years old and i still haven't had a bf. believe me it has nothing to do with size. and you have PLENTY of time to find one.
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reader, Digiman  +, writes (7 November 2009):
 Xoxokatie: More than body size/shape, you should just work on being/becoming the best person you can be. Be true to your personal values, think about what you like about other people, what you value in a friend, etc. and try to be that way! If you like yourself (and that HAS to come first!), then other people, the ones will really matter in your life, will be attracted to you! Don't worry about your weight so much: there are plenty of guys out there who like girls/young women your size, and who will like you! Give it time...I'm sure you'll find a nice BF!
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reader, Nic390 +, writes (7 November 2009):
 Yeah you will. You sound perfectly fine. The thing is guys are all attracted by different things. The thing is at that ages lots are immature dumb so they try to date off what they think is hot in there mind. You should wait till high school the guys mature up a little. You want someone to like you because of who you are not how you look remember that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009): Plenty of guys like "bigger" girls, but please consider losing weight for your own health. I don't mean lose weight to look like a model, rather change your diet and exercise to get your BMI within a healthy range. Good luck :)
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