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writes: My boyfriend and I have been together for a week. But we have known each other for 15 years. Well we want to move in together. But im not sure if its the right time. Its not gonna just be me and him it will also be his bestfriend which is also my nephew... What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (29 August 2009):
I agree with Brook e boo.
Follow your heart. If you are now in a relationship, you've already crossed that line. So no point in going on about the 'dont wreck a friendship' bit.
I moved in with a guy after only a few months and spent 9 good years with him and had 2 children after a few years.
Too quick to live together to most people, yes, but since when has anything been black and white?
Good luck with whatever you decide.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (29 August 2009):
Definitely wait. Things are a lot different once you move in together.
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reader, karasu10 +, writes (29 August 2009):
you've know him for 15 years as a friend. get to know him as a bf and see how your relationship goes first.
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reader, j_rods girl +, writes (29 August 2009):
I think that you should get to know him a little better as a boyfriend before you take any drastic steps.
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reader, Brook_e_boo +, writes (29 August 2009):
well follow your heart be true to it. but if that dose not work then this is wut i would do i would move in with him and work out things as they happend.
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