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writes:im wondering if any other girls have been threw this? im in my early 30's single parent,working and renting my own home. Now...the prob is this...every guy i meet has a gf!! Ive been 'the other woman' for over 2yrs now to every man i meet....YES i know you'll say 'stop dating men that arent single..etc..' BUT u must know that not all of them have been upfront about it they lie and talk themselves around it. Ive totally hit rock bottom w/ men im truly feeling like im ment to be alone, just like how some folks are ment to have babies im thinkn its the same thing w/ me only im ment to be single. Has anyone ever felt the same way?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (29 August 2009):
 You'll find your guy. You're in the right age and you don't have many children. Most probably the guy will be a divorced man, with children of his own, too. But, he will come.
Some men won't tell you they have someone. Some others won't want you because you have a child. But someone will want you as you are. It's a matter of meeting people.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009): If you have a burning desire to be with someone, then you are not meant to be alone.If you believe in the meant-to-be's or in god, then surely you can't think that a human would be put on this earth with a growing and undending will to be someone or be a certain way, only to go through their entire life NOT getting that.
It will happen. I love country music and the song "God Bless The Broken Road" by Rascal Flats comes to mind right now. The lyrics if you desire:
http://www.elyrics.net/read/r/rascal-flatts-lyrics/bless-the-broken-road-lyrics.html
Every person you meet and every thing that happens to you is leading you in a direction and I know you don't know what it is yet, and it may not make sense to you yet but you just have to believe that you are going SOMEWHERE. If you believe in fate as you appear to, then that shouldn't be to hard. Chin up! You'll find the man who's just as lost and waundering around as you are.
~Sy.
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