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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Okay, so here's the deal.. My boyfriend and I have been dating for around 2 1/2 years. But he gets in these little moods all the time.. Like he just ignores me and is mean to me for no reason at all... For example, Last night He told me he was going somewhere with his friends.. and i asked him if he was planning on seeing me any and he said that he'd prob be busy.. So i told him that was bs.. And he told me he was going to sleep and not to text him while he's trying to sleep..so i haven't.. Should I just ignore him and not text him any? You would think after 2 1/2 years he would actually want to communicate about things..but he's never been that type.
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reader, Ifyoudontmind +, writes (29 August 2009):
Relationships tend to go all over the place, and you do fall into a routine. And you can even get sick of each other. You know, maybe this is one of those phases where you have to WORK to be in love again.You know? I mean, if you doing anything for long enough, no matter how much you love it. Its still going to be a routine, and you need to alter it to keep things fresh, and from going stagnant.Try that, when is the last time you surprised him with something? when is the last time you just went for a walk somewhere and just talked about nothing. Go do anything out of the ordinary, go to a fair, be childish anything to keep your relationship young.Think back to freshmen year of high school, you remember your first boyfriend? how giddy you would be even holding hands? try to recreate that feeling. It will help, I promise.-iydm
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