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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am having a lot of problems with my fiance CONSTANTLY looking at porn. I can't understand why anymore because I am still young, I am in great shape and I always say yes when he wants to try new things. I mean, not just new posistions but any fantasy he asks I always give it a try for him, yet no matter what I do for him, or how often I still see all the porn sites he visits and always find a dvd in the player.... I have verbally stated how unhappy it makes me when he watches that filth, I have expressed how offensive and disrespectful that is to me. It makes me feel very self conscious and makes me wonder if that is all he is doing is "Looking". I even filtered the internet at one point because it was slowing my computer down wgeb he was using it for that. I don't feel like I should have to treat him like a child and I don't think I am asking a lot considering everything I do for him. I am not sure if it makes sense to just learn to accept it, or leave him. I love him, but I wonder how long we will possibly be able to last when it seems he is already looking for more.
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reader, Paula4u  +, writes (28 September 2009):
 Yep he wont give it up and if he does, the lies will start and once the lies start he will lie about anything else too.
Losing battle. Some guys are simply a no go area.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (29 August 2009):
 This is because you are confusing why men like porn. And some women obviously.
It has nothing to do with you. He is perfectly happy with you. Porn is a different thing altogether. Just like someone that masturbates, isn't always someone that isn't getting enough sex!
I dont think you should see it as filth. But who am I to say. If you really see it as that, then you have a problem here. Because your partner seems to like it.
If you didn't see it as filth, he would probably like you to watch it with him too?
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reader, Ghost5752  +, writes (29 August 2009):
Hae im a guy in my late teens ,and personally i dont think that you should have to make sacrifices for your fiance
if your fiance love's you like u think he does then he should be able to give up the porn ,especially if he's got some one who's young and in great shape ,he shouldn't need the porn
wen he wants to try new things wat sorta "new things" are we talking about ???
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