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writes:Okay, so his friend changed him within a week of hanging with him, right? (No I'm not kidding), and now my boyfriend is so negative. He said he could never leave me because he loves me too much to do so, but as of yesterday, I realized that everything he said was a lie since he called us on break. The number one thing he knew that doesn't work out in a relationship, he calls us on break anyways. Now normally hes sweet and passionate but not anymore, that's how much he's changed within one week. But what really gets me is that he said yesterday was the hardest thing he ever did in his life, but that's why he was happy enough to make a stupid video for this website Nsiders, if you've ever heard about it. On top of that he said he wants to hang out with me today?! He called us on break, but he wants to see me today, go to all the school dances and move in with me after he graduates this year!? But here's my question. Does it seem like he loves me still, or is he just playing mind games with me and it's time to "take out the trash" ?
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reader, s0ph1ek1ely  +, writes (13 October 2009):
He seems like he doesnt want you but doesnt want anyone else to have you either. He might be doing it to make you give him attention. Boys just want to know they are dominant and loved, which is why the break it off so you go crawling back to their feet. I think he just needs the security. Im sure he just still loves you. Whatever you do dont argue but give him what he wants - in this case the break... he'll soon realise what hes missing.
If all fails tell him its not fair to be treated like this and say you loved him for what he was - not what he is now. Then leave him as its clearly affecting you.
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