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What does it mean when your ex wants to sleep with you still, even though he has a new girlfriend?

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Question - (29 August 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

What does it mean when ur ex wants to shag u and always takes the piss and speaks to u still on the phone?

Mates say that there is still something there between us but im not so sure he has a new girlfriend now

Any advice

sammie. xxxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009):

ok, this is how i see it: booty call.

heres a more eloquent answer, guys that are insecure about themselves tend to be show offs, man whores because its their way to feed their ego and prove to themselves that they are amazing. tehrefore, they are the typical non-comformists who can really truly commit themselves ina serious long term relation ship, where sexual activities are not the core of them, So, even though he has a girlfriend, he needs more to know that he is "the man" and so thast where you come in the picture. He does not love you, and he does not want you. He just need you to prove himself to be a man,

aka, you being his booty call for his times of need.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009):

Imagine you are his current girlfriend.

Imagine him calling his ex all the time behind your back. Now imagine him urinating while talking to her. Finally, imagine him asking her all the time to have sex with her.

What are your thoughts of him? What do you think of him? What do you think it means when he does that?

There's your answer.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009):

it means he wants to use you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009):

he just wants to use you! stay away from him! he just wants 2 use you as his bit on the side ive been there trust me it doesnt turn out how you want it to you. wil get emotionally attached most girls do and probably hurt he cant respect his girlfriend much either or maybe just women in general find some1 else thers more to life than crap men thats what iv learnt recently! xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009):

it means he just wants sex. If you're still emotionally attached, and don't like to cheat with people, then please stop and find a way to move on.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (29 August 2009):

Just because you don't want to be with someone doesn't mean you don't find them attractive.

He sees you in the same way he sees Jodie Marsh. Good for a quick shag but not worth putting effort into.

He thinks you are easy and will probably have sex with him, so he tries to make himself feel like a man by flirting with you, knowing he could use you and dump you if he wanted.

Basically he thinks you're a slag.

Cut contact because this is just disrespectful and you are worth far more than this.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, Sphronas United States +, writes (29 August 2009):

Sphronas agony auntIt means that if he can have two women for the price of one, he will not say no. But you should say no, because you deserve better.

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