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writes:Dated a guy for about six months and then broke up. We are trying to remain friends and have had a few coffee dates. I do see him because we would travel in the same circles. He would end up showing up at events and would sit where he would see me (I would not always see him). Other times he would make sure that I would see him talking to other women. Is he trying to make me jealous? If so why? does he want me back?
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (29 August 2009):
 The question is...Do you want him back???
If you still have feelings for him and his efforts to make you jealous are having an effect then maybe you should try to rekindle things. If you like him more than he likes you, then he could be just trying to prove to you that he is moving on, by hanging out with other women so conspicuously.
It's really hard to stay friends with an ex unless whatever was between you is firmly in the past. If one or the other retains feelings then they risk being hurt over and over when the other person finds a new partner. If this is the case for you then avoid seeing him. If you move in the same circles then change your schedule and the places you go, in order that you don't run into him.
I wish you luck
Aunty Em xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009): Men aren't that complicated. If he wanted you back he would be CALLING you, TALKING to you, SHOWING UP at your door. Its pretty plain and simple.If he's not doing that, chances are NO he doesn't care if he has you back or not. And if he doesn't care, chances are NO he is NOT trying to make you jealous.
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