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female
age
30-35,
*liciouss
writes:i know this sounds ridiculous but i dont have trouble finding men at all. but i recently tried a dating website just for the heck of it and i ended up meeting someone. on our first date i didnt really care because its internet.. "it wouldnt work" but apparently i left for vacation for 2 weeks and he kept talking to me via email. when i came back we hung out a lot. he gets along with all my friends. the thing is that he rarely texts me throughout the day and he enjoys coming to see me cuz i party a lot. and he likes that scene since he doesnt go to college. at the parties, he flirts with other girls. when were alone, hes all for me. he came off as a manwhore to me because he is very experienced and im not up to his level at all. he always wants to have sex with me too and i dont want to give in yet because i havent met any of his friends yet, which is a sign to me that i am just a friend with benefits. dont get me wrong, we always have conversations and we go on dates, not just parties. we have a good time. i want to know if he is using me to get to my friends and meet new people
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (30 August 2009):
 He sounds alright, but as a casual date and friend, not as a boyfriend.
It sounds like he has a different idea of being serious and when it is appropriate to have sex with another person, and that to him, sex is casual and not something that is a commitment, at least, that is what he has appeared to have shown you in the short amount of time that you have known him.
If this doesn't feel like the sort of thing that you want in a man, and your values and morals are different than his, then you already have you answer! People can't use use unless you let them... and if it walks like a duck, looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck - it's a duck. Trust your own instincts!
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