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female
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30-35,
*hristy1991
writes:i was seeing this guy over summer. I didnt want to just come across as an easy to get with girl, even though i was sexually active with him. So ive talked to him about taking it more seriously, or we're done. he said he needed more time very time. i waited all summer and broke it off. he said he liked me, but im not gonna sleep around even though i did but only thinking he would ask me eventually. he didnt. i dont know if he was just using me or what, but the last time i saw him i said we're done. he said it was going to be hard not to txt me, and the only way he wouldn't if he deleted my number. and then he said "if i ever txt you, don't ignore me please." i said i wont, i truly like him as a friend too. I was sure he was going to txt me if not the next day, cause he always did. But he never did, its been 3 weeks. idk if he deleted my #, but i see him around sometimes at school (we say hi). we're both seniors. and i have him on facebook. 1. do you think he just wanted to try it w me till summer ended? i was his first. 2. i know i still think about him, and i am trying to get over him, is it immature if i delete him off of facebook, cause i keep on looking at his profile everytime im on?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (29 August 2009):
Sounds like he was just too immature to deal with a real life girlfriend.
Any boy will do sexual stuff with you, but it doesn't mean he's actually ready to be someone's boyfriend. He's just a little boy.
This is why you always WAIT and date a guy for a while before doing sexual stuff with him... to see if he's worth getting involved with.
Delete him off facebook. If he notices then just tell him you need to get over him. If he moans about that then point out that he has made NO effort what so effort so stuff him.
Good Luck!! xx
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