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How can I casually start talking to a guy I really like?!

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Question - (29 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Theres this boy i like at my school, Im a freshman in highschool, his locker is 2 dowwn from mine, we stare at eachother alot, i always come close to talking to him but i dont have the guts, whenever where in the hallway walking past eachother he'll look at me and look soo nervous, i dont know what to say, it would be weird to just say hi outta know where especially because i never talked to him before, so give me tips.

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A female reader, Brook_e_boo United States +, writes (29 August 2009):

Brook_e_boo agony aunti agree with both of the awnsers below me he most likely is shy. i was in the same perdicament like last week so finnaly i went to talk to him now we are great friends and we flurt alot just say hi

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (29 August 2009):

Pretty much what Emily said. He's probably really shy too, so just go ahead and smile and say, "Hi." It's just being friendly, it doesn't come on as if it's anything, and then hopefully it can make him feel more comfortable for him to talk to you since you went ahead and took the first step. It's normal to be nervous and worried about what he's going to think, but it's totally innocent--you can say hi to anyone. Good luck!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (29 August 2009):

Well next time he's by his locker and you are at yours and you look at eachother, just smile at him, and then go off.

Then next time, smile at him and say "Hi" in a friendly polite way, and if he says hi back and starts talking to you then that's great.

If you say hi and he just smiles then say "see you round" and go off on your way.

Just get to the point where you say hi as you would to any neighbour. If he still doesn't talk to you then you know he's an idiot and you can move on and just use him as something nice to look at when you are at your locker.

Good Luck!! xx

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