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female
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36-40,
*ranhquy
writes:There is a guy in my class; I don't know why he hates me ; I'm the only one in class he's mean to. I help him alot in homework even the subjects that I don't have with him. I help him even I'm really busy with my own homework. Nevertheless, when I ask him for him, he shows he's busy and doesn't want to help me. I like talking to people in class( including him) and tutor them in homework. Nevertheless, my actions make him think that I'm too available for him and people. He says I'm crazy,annoyed, ungly and only blind people like me. Now I'm feeling very sad and silly ;why he's so mean to me when I try to be nice and friendly to him and everyone,Do you think he calls me crazy since I'm too "available" for him and everybody? Am I silly when being too open to people like that? What should I do now?Ps: One night he called me and asked me to do a hard problem in his Math class; he said he wanted me to finish it and bring it to him tomorrow. Although i was busy, but i did it too. We're in college now. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): This is not critisicm. you're letting him walk all over you. Stop it now before it goes too far!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): Ummm he's mean to you because he knows you'll let him be mean to you (BULLY 101). Nobody else in the class it putting up with his crap as you can see. Leave him alone. If he has any common sense he'll stop being stupid and realize he needs you in order to "make the grade." If he dose not come around remember that he's a BIG BOY NOW. He has no excuse for being rude or disrespectful to someone who try to help his butt succeed. If he dose not come around cut of your services in a timely fashion.
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