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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. He has a friend that he has known since early adolescence. I have had the distinct pleasure of spending time with the two of them together at numerous social occasions. I think his friend might be gay--he has exhibited definite signs in that direction, in my opinion, and typically I have very good gaydar. I have confronted my boyfriend about this several times, because it has made me uncomfortable. My bf told me a story where his friend got drunk once and he came up to him and performed a simulation of a gay act in front of a whole bunch of people. I asked him if he thought this was a little awkward, and he just laughed without saying anything. I'm not sure what to think. I feel like there is something going on behind the scenes, something not quite right about their relationship but I just can't put my finger on it. Perhaps someone who knows can let me know what's going on? I'm confused here. I want to believe my bf really cares about me, but I feel like he has a weird relationship with this guy. It makes me very uncomfortable.
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reader, littlemissalf123 +, writes (16 November 2008):
 Sure he cares about you... AND HIS CLOOOOOSSSSE friend too. Sounds like something other then a few games of Parcheesi are going on between the two of them. In my opinion if your boyfriend didn't have hidden feeling for this guy he wouldn't be defensive about your asking questions... just my opinion though.
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