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writes:I went out with this guy for two months and then we broke up. He said it was because it was hard staying together when he was in one town and Ii was in another.(He lived in the same town as me when we first got together then 3 weeks later he moved 2 a neighbouring town). Now about 3 months after we broke up he talked to one of my friends online and asked her if I say anything about him or say that I miss him. He also talked to me the previous night and at the end of our conversation he said that he wanted to see me again, like in person. After my friend talked to him she thinks that he still likes me and asked me if I still like him and of course I still do. Now I don't know what to do...
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reader, Fracturedhand +, writes (17 November 2008):
Often guys will regret things much later, sometimes they seem to late for girls to accept it. If you think he was to late in regretting losing you, then tell him. But if you miss him as much as he (apparently) misses you, then go with it. I'm sure hes wishing he had you back, or he wouldn't do what hes done so far. (Especially not talk to your friend about you)
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reader, bemused  +, writes (16 November 2008):
 It is apparent to me at least that the two of you still have feelings for each other and it sounds like he misses having you in his life. Was the distance the only reason that the two of you parted company. I think the reason you are hesitating is because this may not seem like enough of a sure thing for you and you were hurt before and do not want to go down that path again. If you did meet up and asked you to be his girl again..what would you say? Would it be a resounding yes or is there still just a bit of doubt there. The bottom line is that you are different towns. This was the reseon for the breakup I am thinking? If you are to get back together, someone is going to have to move. This seems like a big investment for a relationship that broke up the first time. Would you be willing to be with him? Would he be willing to be with you. It is not the most romantic way of looking at it. You really should meet up with him and discuss things. See if the feelings are still there. If they are...well take it one step at a time. Good luck hun.
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