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writes: how do u know if u are really in love?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): When you are in love you wouldn't be wondering whether you are really in love.It comes and hits you with a force of thousand meteors.Believe me you will just know.
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reader, LittleHelper16 +, writes (16 November 2008):
wow thats I BIG question hunny
probably one of the biggest questions anyone could ask, and the hardest to answer. it's pretty much unexplainable.
when your in love everyhting in the world feels right and you start to see the beauty in things that you would have never found before. you see things in a new light. you feel invincable, theres no better feeling in the world, no greater high, you have that person on your mind constantly, you feel as if you have known them forever, like you know everything about them and love every little peice of them, like they have no flaws and the ones they do have aren't so big or enough to ever make you stop loving them, when you love someone youd kill and be killed for them ( which I don't wish on anyone but you get the point) you just have to have this feeling to even begin to descibe what love is. when your in love you'll know, no one in the world can exactly explain it but I kow for a fact that you'll know when it happens
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reader, littlemissalf123 +, writes (16 November 2008):
I'm going to assume you think your in love. I'm also going to assume(because of your age "13-15") you think that you're ready to do somthing that "IN LOVE," people do. If that case let me say first, there are all types of love. The first thing you need to do is decide if you LOVE the guy or REALLY LIKE the guy. If you LOVE the guy you'd sell your p**** on the streets of New York to pay for his medical bills (WHY DO FOOLS FALL IN LOVE, a movie) if he got hurt. However, if you REALLY LIKE him you'd maybe send him a card and come visit. Now decide, which one of these things would you be willing to do for him. That might tell you if your really "IN LOVE," or in STRONG LIKE.
Secondly if he loves you he'll work for your love. That means not doing anything your not ready to do. And just as note, "MEN DON'T ASSOCIATE LOVE WITH SEX." That's how some of them are able to get out the bed, couch, sleeping bag while your still knocked out and go to the mall with his friends. Also, if he loves you he'd only be interested in what's best for you. If my boyfriend asked me to walk over what i believe in to give him what he wanted, or thought that I owed him something for buying me a large instead of a value fry at McDonald's, he wouldn't be around me much longer (say the 7 seconds it would take to run out the door). So as I said before, there are different types of love. decide which one you and your boyfriend are in.
I hope that helps.
I hope that helps
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