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Question - (16 November 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

My marriage is failing, my wife has caused some serious issues with cheating many times. I tried to help her. I changed my behavior, things she said were causes for her infidelity. I stopped drinking, smoking and was here for her all the time. It didn't seem to help her feelings toward me. While I don't think she's cheating at the moment, I doubt she would turn a decent guy down for sex if she knew she would get away with it. Her attitude towards me is short and sharp. Her communication with me is sarcastic, mean and rude.

She became very angry when I complained about her going to a girls night out for 2 reasons. The first is that I don't know these ladies at all, the second is I feel she could be using that as an excuse to meet up with other men. She works the midnight shift and our time together is already limited, so it made me angry that she was willing to leave me home while she went out without me.

She is a very lazy person and does a poor job with household responsibilities. She complains often that she's bored. I feel if she got off her ass and was part of the family, she wouldn't be bored. I work 6 days a week, take care of the kids and most of the household chores. I'm not bored, I'm over worked, undersexed and am getting my fill of this situation faster everyday. Is this fair to me or am I being kept as a doormat?

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