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Can a Straight guy have interest in kissing/making out with other guys??

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Question - (16 November 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *keez writes:

Just a little question that im interested in peoples' opinions on - ESPECIALLY MEN.

Okay, can a straight guy be interested in kissing/making out with another guy?

I personally think that no straight guy can have interest in doing that, but then I've met men who supposedly say that they are completely straight when they have made out with other guys.

What are your opinions???

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A male reader, refreshme Australia +, writes (26 March 2009):

one would think if a guy is curious to enjoy another guys mouth and tounge then he must have been thinking about it for a while and hence may not be exactly a 0 on the Kinsey Scale. See: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

But I can see how a spur of the moment snog could be interpreted differently I guess....

I'd like to see more str8 guys 'experimenting' publically in this way hehe

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A female reader, asian tealeaf Canada +, writes (17 November 2008):

asian tealeaf agony auntof course! my first response here is, as women will often be curious as to whats it like to kiss a girl, ( iwas curious and was kissed by a girl and it made no difference in my sexuality..im straight still!!) and so too can men be the same way. only men have a HARDER time dealing with these thoughts as men are, ahem, no pun intended, more anal about these isssues and of course society values are still very traditional... u are a guy. if ur curious about whats it like to kiss a guy then ur bi- curious. but, i think not realy bi curious. because ur not wanting to swing that way as well. u just want to know what the experience be like and casll it a day!

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A female reader, helpjayne United Kingdom +, writes (16 November 2008):

helpjayne agony auntI think it's a curiousity thing like women sometimes make out with other women but are completely straight. I think straight guys do it in a non serious way, they just want to try to see what it is like.

Some guys like girls do it to turn the other sex on as well, it's no biggy, kissin is just for fun. If a guy gave another a blow job then I'd be thinking that he's not that straight, I think everyone experiments to see if things feel right.

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A female reader, Teacake United States +, writes (16 November 2008):

Teacake agony auntYeah, I think if you do it once out of curiosity that might be normal. But if you do this one more time, you are headed for the gay life for sure. But, having sex with the same sex is gay, or bi. But no way straight.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008):

Well I don't know about the kissing aspect but I guess a usually completely straight guy can have a thing with another guy purely from the sex angle - we know exactly what we want without the flowers/ chocs/ dinner dates bullshit. I reckon a guy can achieve sexual relief with another guy just for its' own sake and walk away, no strings.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (16 November 2008):

If you are trying something out in your teens, because you are curious then you can still end up completely straight and more secure about it than most.

If you continue to want to make out with guys then you are not straight.

Same things with girls. Lots of girls get crushes on girls and even have relationships with them but then grow up and get married to a man and think nothing of it.

Good Luck!! xx

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